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Lipgloss and Pumps is about how I see Fashion, Style, Interesting Events, Ideas, Tips, Designs, Creativity, Relationships, News Updates and especially what inspires me. Fashion to me is our Style, Attitude, Ideas, where we Live and the way we Live. It is not all about dresses but what inspires us to create styles,ideas and experiences that makes us stand out..Fashion is Art, Art is Fashion... Enjoy, Follow & Comment as you like “If you were born without wings, do nothing to prevent their growing.” CoCo Chanel

Saturday 31 December 2011

JPLEASE FEEL FREE TO COMMENT OR FOLLOW MY BLOG...WILL FOLLOW BACK! J

LIVING YOUR LIFE

DO WELL BEHAVED WOMEN MAKE HISTORY???


HMM JUST A THOUGHT....

LAST NIGHT I WAS THINKING TO MYSELF, WHAT I WANTED TO ACHIEVE NEXT YEAR, WHAT MY PLANS ARE AND WHAT I AM WILLING TO DO TO BE THE BEST I CAN BE NEXT YEAR...I M GOING TO BE 27 NEXT YEAR AND MEEN I AM OLD, LIKE 3 YEARS TO THIRTY. WOW! THE BIG "30"...OK I KNOW I AM NOT WHERE I WANT TO BE YET CAREER WISE WHICH IS A LONG TERM PLAN BUT I JUST GOT A JOB SO THAT HELPS, I NEED A FEW PROFESSIONAL QUALIFICATIONS, AS IF TWO DEGREES AND A MASTERS IS NOT ENOUGH...NOT EVEN BOASTING...COUGH!...TRUST ME...I BELIEVE IN BUILDING MYSELF. I ALSO WANT TO BE MORE DISCIPLINED THE WAY I HANDLE THINGS CONCERNING MYSELF, LIFE STYLE, SPENDING...NO ROOM FOR FAILURE....ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT...I AM NOT GOING DRILL SERGEANT ON MYSELF, I WILL TREAT MYSELF ONCE A WHILE BUT 2012 IS A VERY IMPORTANT YEAR FOR ME.

WHAT DOES THE YEAR 2012 MEAN TO ME?

OK LETS SEE, FIRST OF ALL, I AM A FULLY FLEDGED WOMAN, I AM NOT A CHILD, OR CONSIDERED YOUNG, "I AM A GROWN ASS WOMAN". NOW I AM THINKING ABOUT A HUSBAND, MONEY, HOUSE, KIDS, CAREER, I AM THINKING A LOT...

NOW BACK TO THE WHOLE ESSENCE OF THE PICTURE RIGHT AT THE TOP.."DO WELL BEHAVED WOMEN RARELY MAKE HISTORY"..HEY I DON'T WANT TO BE THE MOST TALKED ABOUT WOMAN OUT THERE. I WANT TO BE MAKE AN IMPACT, NOT ON THE WORLD, I WISH I COULD BUT I WILL LEAVE THAT FOR PEOPLE THAT CAN HANDLE THE WORLD. SPEAKING OF IMPACT, I MEAN IN MY LIFE, IN MY FAMILY LIFE, MY COMMUNITY, MY FRIENDS, I WANT TO MEAN SOMETHING...BASICALLY I WANT TO SUCCEED. WHAT AM I WILLING TO GIVE UP, WHAT AM I WILLING TO DO.

QUESTIONS QUESTIONS, I ASK MY SELF QUESTIONS THAT HAVE MANY ANSWERS. SOMETIMES I GET SO IMPATIENT BECAUSE I KNOW THE TIME IS VERY CLOSE..........


STAY TUNNED.

BEYONCE SWAG





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5 HABITS THAT HURT YOUR RELATIONSHIP

MOVING INTO THE NEW YEAR, I AM SURE WE ALL HAVE NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH IMPROVING OURSELVES, RELATIONSHIPS, THE WAY WE DEAL WITH OUR FINANCES AND SO ON...

I STUMBLED ON THIS SOMETIME AGO, Mmm I WOULD SAY JUST A THOUGHT, SOMETHING INTERESTING TO READ...THAT IS IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, DOESNT HAVE TO APPLY TO YOU, HEY NO BODY IS PERFECT, I ENJOYED IT AND THOUGHT YOU WOULD :)

5 Habits that Hurt Your Relationship
Match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor reveals the five most destructive things you might be doing every day to sabotage your relationship, and gives her advice on how you can stop them NOW

1.    Over-prioritising 

Over prioritising is Don’t get me wrong – your relationship is very important. But so are you. And so is the life you’d so carefully built up before you began your relationship. Don’t be tempted to start putting yourself and your stuff – your goals, interests and friends – in second place when you’re in a relationship, because it won’t get the results you long for.
When we fall in love with somebody new, it’s easy to make them the focus of your world. It feels fun to do that! But over time, if you don’t maintain your own life too, your relationship will feel like it has become your life. You’ll panic at the thought of it finishing because you have nothing else to do, making you more likely to put up with sub-standard treatment. By focussing on your love life, you’ll find other areas of your world start to look neglected, making you spend MORE time focussing on love instead, as problems elsewhere become unbearable… Here’s some relationship advice: Get the balance right. The easiest way sometimes to work on your relationship is to work on other things instead! Keep the interests, goals and friends you had at the beginning of the relationship. Keep them in good condition; tend to them. This way, you’ll have more energy, confidence and enthusiasm when you’re with your partner, and your full, well-rounded life will keep them attracted to you.


2.    If Only…

If only he’d buy me flowers every week. If only she’d watch sport with me. If only he earned more money. If only she could lose 10lbs… “If Only”s will damage your relationship very quickly. You might think you’re stealthily having these thoughts but they’ll be visible to your other half through your actions. Yes, they will. You’ll pout when he comes home without flowers, or you’ll fidget resentfully through the movie as you long to watch the big match on the other side. Strangely, “If Only”s are usually the sign you’re in a good relationship! Without real, concrete problems to focus on, you have time to day-dream about hypothetical finishing-touches. My relationship advice? Stop. Instead of thinking about what your partner doesn’t have, think about what they do. Write a list of the top 20 things you adore about your partner and see how that immediately pushes the “If Only”s out of the picture.


3.    Disloyalty

You and your partner are a team. One of the easiest ways to damage your relationship is to be disloyal to your partner. So don’t spill all their secrets to your friends, don’t moan endlessly about them to anyone who’ll listen, don’t lie to them (even if it’s easier) and don’t go against their wishes on matters that are important to them – work to find a compromise.
The reason this is important is that the strongest, soundest relationships create their own feeling of “It’s you and me against the world!” But as soon as you destroy that, it’s gone. Some relationship advice about loyalty - see your partner’s best side, be the voice that boosts them up instead of putting them down. If they are someone you can’t genuinely respect or admire, you shouldn’t be with them.

4.    Lack of self-care

It’s important to maintain your appearance when you’re in a relationship – not only will it keep your partner fancying you, it will keep your self-confidence high. You’ll keep your sassy, spicy edge which is one of the most successful ingredients in good long-term affairs. But don’t let your health, including mental health, go neglected. When it comes to appearance, the best relationship advice is simply to look after yourself: get enough sleep, eat healthily, exercise. If your partner has an unhealthy lifestyle, try not to copy it for the sake of “going along to get along”. If they eat unhealthy food, don’t give in to their pizza suggestions every time, introduce them to your favourite healthy meals instead or order your own light alternatives. In the first flush of love you might go without rest, but don’t skip sleep long-term, it’ll make you moody and more likely to over-react to problems that arise. Make your health a priority.

5.    Competitiveness


This is a very common habit amongst unhappy couples. They compete for everything – who’s the most successful, who’s doing the most housework, who buys the best presents, even who’s the most ill. It’s incredibly unsupportive and is one of the fastest ways to alienate a partner as they’ll soon turn to other people to receive much-needed appreciation and praise. Competition arises when one – or both – partners feels insecure. Disliking themselves, they feel threatened when they perceive their partner to be somehow “better” than them, so they look to redress the balance, either by boasting about their own achievements, or by belittling their partner’s. It can also be sparked by a major life event (buying a home, having a baby, marriage or promotion) that shakes up a couple’s life significantly. My relationship advice here is, if you’re the one feeling competitive, work on improving your self-confidence. The tips in this article will help, so focus on your goals, friends, appearance and health until your partner’s success no longer threatens you. If your partner is the one who always seems keen to out-do you, give them attention and praise and encourage them to build a fulfilling life outside your relationship. Then you should both be able to become one another’s cheerleaders again, instead of feeling you’re on opposing teams. 

RED NAIL POLISH

J'ADORE BEYONCE

SHOES

DEAR GOD



I WANT TO THANK GOD FOR SEEING ME THROUGH THIS YEAR, FOR BEING THERE FOR ME, FOR GUIDING ME, FOR PROTECTING ME, FOR LOVING ME, FOR FORGIVING ME AND FOR BEING IN MY LIFE. GOD HAS DONE SO MUCH FOR ME AND I WILL BE EVA GRATEFUL...GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH A JOB AS A RECRUITMENT ADVISOR WORKING IN THE NHS, HE IS A MERCIFUL GOD. ALL WHO BELIEVE IN HIM SHALL NEVER LACK, FAIL AND PROSPER. I BELIEVE IN GOD AND I HAVE FAITH IN HIM...PEOPLE GROW SOME FAITH IN GOD YOU WILL BE SURPRISED WHAT HE CAN DO FOR YOU.

PEACE AND LOVE...

WHAT IS THE FUTURE..WHAT IS MY DESTINY


HAPPY NEW YEAR

Choose to reinforce your mind positively!
Choose an empowering attitude!
Choose to overcome unwanted obstacles!
Choose to approach change with optimism!
Choose to make each day better.
Choose to be a magnet of motivation for others.
Choose to be thankful for the gracious, glorious gift of CHOICE! Do it every day and DO IT BIG!!!"
Happy New Year Folks.

Friday 23 December 2011

MSN BEST DRESSED STARLETS FOR 2011

STARLETS OR HELL NO STARLETS
WHAT DO YOU THINK?



WE ARE BEAUTIFUL



YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY, THEY CANT BRING YOU DOWN!!

RIHANNA

RIHANNA IS A CUTE CHICK, EVERYTHING SUITS HER, SHE IS A NATURAL BEAUTY, LOVE THE LOOK..





SHOE

CANT SEEM TO MAKE UP MY MIND WHICH COLOUR I WANT....

CHRISTMAS IS COMING SOON

MERRY CHRISTMAS

I AM FEELING THE CHRISTMAS VIBE..ARE YOU? THIS DECEMBER HAS BROUGHT ME A LOT OF GOOD LUCK AND THINGS TO LOOK FORWARD TO IN THE NEW YEAR. IS IT THE SAME FOR YOU, IF IT IS PLEASE COMMENT AND SHARE WITH US..I AM PROMOTING POSITIVITY THIS MONTH GOING INTO THE NEW YEAR..HEY NO ONE CAN MAKE ME MAD NOW LOL..

A LOT HAS HAPPENED THIS YEAR, I STARTED BLOGGING A LOT MORE THIS YEAR TO KEEP ME BUSY AND EXPRESS MYSELF WHILE LOOKING FOR A JOB. GUESS WHAT MY PRECIOUS FOLLOWERS, I GOT ONE YESTERDAY, I AM OVER THE MOON AND SO READY TO KICK ASS AT THAT JOB, WILL PROBABLY WIN EMPLOYEE OF THE MONTH WITH HOW ENTHUSIASTIC I AM FEELING "I WISH"..I AM GETTING A BLACKBERRY BOLD FROM MUM "EARLY BIRTHDAY PRESENT", AN IPAD FROM MY BOO AND IT IS GOING TO ME A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS..

WISHING YOU ALL A MERRY CHRISTMAS AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION....


RELATIONSHIP

I BELIEVE THIS IS A TRUE EXAMPLE OF WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS SUPPOSED TO BE. WE ALL KNOW THERE IS NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP OUT THERE, PEOPLE ARE GENERALLY NOT PERFECT AND WE PASS THROUGH LIFE MAKING MISTAKES, LEARNING FROM OUR MISTAKES AND ACCEPTING OUR MISTAKES DOESN'T HAVE TO BE WHO WE ARE...IT DOESN'T HAVE TO DEFINE WHO WE ARE...

ALTHOUGH A FEW MISTAKES COULD BE UNFORGIVABLE BUT IF YOU FORGIVE MAKE SURE THE ONE WHOM YOU FORGIVE IS TOTALLY WORTH IT IN THE LONG RUN. WE SHOULD MAKE LOVE AND NOT REJECT IT, LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING, I KNOW LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING...LOVE YOU ALL...

BREAKFAST


WHAT I ATE FOR BREAKFAST THIS MORNING, YUMM! WANT SOME?
JPLEASE FEEL FREE TO COMMENT OR FOLLOW MY BLOG...WILL FOLLOW BACK! J

Tuesday 20 December 2011